If you made it past the first date and have a second date coming up - congrats! J  The second date should feel a bit more relaxed than the first.  Here are my top 5 tips for a successful date number two:

1.  Do something that you chatted about in date one.  If the first date went well, you should know a little bit more now about your date’s interests.  Is there a food that you both like?  Is there an activity you both enjoy?  If you plan something you both said you liked, it will be appreciated that you took the extra mile to make it more personal.  We talked about Asian food in our first date, so for our second date, I took Alena to Hunan Dynasty and impressed her by ordering the dishes in Cantonese.  I also found out in date one that Alena used to have a quaker parrot, and loves birds.  At the time, there happened to be a Birds of Paradise exhibit going on at the National Geographic Museum, so we took that as a sign of fate and made a museum trip our second date.
2.  Do something fun, public, and interactive.  If your first date was a quick cup of coffee or a drink at happy hour, make this date a bit more of an activity.  Check out a concert together.  Shoot billiards.  Go dancing.  Whatever you do, just have fun.  But hold off on Netflix and chilling until at least the third date, if you’re playing for keeps.  
3.  Have it on a weekend.  I suggested a weekday for the first date, but I suggest a weekend afternoon or evening for the second.  Test your date out and see how they respond.  If they’re up for a weekend, then that’s a good sign they’re into you.  On the other hand, if you find in the next date or two that they’re only available in the weekdays, they may be seeing someone else or not that interested.

4.  Keep the romance going before, during, and after date two.  If (and only if) the second date is going well, be affectionate, hold hands, flirt, make out.  Keep the texts and talk sexy, but also balanced with talk about each other’s interests and quirks, likes and dislikes, hopes and dreams, etc.
"Your only goal is to make the next date a fun, comfortable experience and get to know each other a little better.  And then repeat until you’ve lost count of the dates you’ve had."
5. Take one date at a time.  Your only goal is to make the next date a fun, comfortable experience and get to know each other a little better.  And then repeat until you’ve lost count of the dates you’ve had. Don’t bring up any grand plans for the future, or talk about wedding ideas or rings – even if you want to.  If you’re both having a great time, and discovering that you both are looking for the same things, it will happen naturally.  
 


Comments

04/17/2016 7:04am

A long lasted relationship which is full of some joys, sorrows and small mistakes is a such type of thing which have only kind of taste. With the passing of time that taste did not become tasteless but it is converted to more taste thing.

Reply
08/27/2016 6:31pm

I'm planning to ask this girl for a second date and I got no idea what we're going to do. As much as possible, I don't want to mess this up. I'm so glad that I stumbled upon your blog. Thanks for sharing these awesome tips! I'll stick around for more dating tips from you.

Reply
09/10/2016 12:03am

Thank you for this Dating and Relationships guide. Somehow this is very helpful aside from the very fact that we need to be just real and natural with ourselves. We also need the realization to improve and do something better without being pretentious and conceited. The key is always being true to yourself, be faithful and confident as always since this would reflect your true colors. I have learned a lot reading this blog and would definitely share this one!

Reply
12/20/2016 12:01pm

Do you bring camera on all of your dates?)) This makes me think of some first date with my wife. It was 80s and rock festival I guess would be a good idea)

Reply
12/30/2016 2:27am

I think it is a really hard work to write something special for people's audience especially now, when we have a tones of different literature from diverse parts of the world.

Reply
12/30/2016 2:28am

Although I do not understand what you have to say here I am still happy to be visiting your blog page this because it can create new knowledge for me.

Reply
06/16/2017 5:49pm

thank you

Reply
06/16/2017 5:49pm

nice blog

Reply

Beauti Queen amazing kolkata escorts agency alwyas ready for you at your doorstep. Beauti Queen provide you high profile independent girl in kolkata, escorts service in kolkata, kolkata escorts. If you are looking for the ultimate encounter in Kolkata then I am your sophisticated young Kolkata escorts that provides upscale companionship for making your night becomes true.

Reply
12/25/2017 3:22am

Jiya Roy is a high class luxury and premium independent escorts agency in Gurgaon offering sexy independent escort Girls, models and cheap rate call girls for incalls and outcalls and travel arrangements. Female companions available 24/7 for business events, tour guide and much more.

Reply
12/25/2017 6:03am

Gurgaonfemales.in offers highly educated model from Gurgaon and best Escorts service in Gurgaon.

Reply
12/29/2017 6:40am

Renu Das Kolkata Escorts Services has gorgeous females provides Independent Escorts Service in Kolkata call girls at 100% satisfaction with VIP models. Provided Kolkata escorts at our agency are professional in nature and are eager to serve you at your place.

Reply
01/19/2018 2:27am

Riya Chaudhary is an Independent Delhi Escort girl, who offers dazzling hot Delhi Escorts Service, incall or outcall services both to complete your dreams in real entertainment. We offers high class Independent Escorts in Delhi at Riya Chaudhary Delhi Escorts service agency for elite peoples in the city to avail ultimate satisfaction. you can spend your beautiful moments.

Reply



Leave a Reply